Attracting girls even if you are short by Dan Menard

Let me mention a few names and you can tell me what they all have in common:
- Al Pacino - Humphrey Bogart - Napoleon

Okay, no surprise here… they’re all short guys. But you know what? They were all awesome with the ladies (and not just because of their celebrity status… they were all players before they became famous.)

In fact, the reason they could attract girls was because of their strong inner attitude.

There are a couple things you can do in the short term. Wearing boots right now will subtly add 2 or 3 inches to your height.

Also, when you dress, wear vertical stripes and tight clothes. That will make you look SLENDER, which will make you appear taller.

Long term, one way short guys can be more dominant physically is to work out. In fact that really should be first and foremost. If you’ve got muscles, it helps A LOT, not only with your physical appearance, but also with your confidence levels, strong inner attitude, and poise. So get in the gym.

When you’re muscular and you’re a short guy, you become like a pit bull. And by the way, I’d like you to experiment with that.. do not always be the nice guy who’s polite. For the next few months, try to let your “inner badass” come out a bit when you’re with girls.

Do the affirmation, “I’m becoming like the pitbull who can dominate the bigger dogs.”

Once you start feeling more and more confident in a few weeks, change your affirmation to, “I AM like the pitbull who can dominate bigger dogs.”

I’ve noticed that a lot of short guys develop a VERY strong presence by having cultivated that inner badass.

Now, I’m not saying you should become a jerk… but just try to balance out that inner nice guy.

Next thing to do long term is to GIVE UP any approval-seeking. Who cares what women think of you? Go through life doing what you want and being who you are. (That is so key by the way… those guys I list above were players exactly because they went through life doing what they wanted and being true to who they were.)

You see, short guys who are badasses really have a bit of an advantage. Because of their stature, they automatically are able to have more rapport with chicks (who tend to be short themselves) than the guys who are beanpoles. And when you add to that a bit of a “badboy” element, it makes chicks dripping wet with attraction.

The bottom line is this: only if YOU feel uncomfortable with your height will it affect you with the girls. If you feel completely comfortable with your height, then they will too.

By the way, when it comes to tall guys, what women find attractive about them isn’t their height. It’s their dominance. If you have a tight sense of inner confidence, and project a personality that sucks them in, height will be the furthest thing from their minds.

So to sum up, be true to yourself, take risks in life, cultivate your inner badass, and stop caring about anyone’s approval. And hit the gym ASAP. And do the fashion things I said.

Then you’ll attract girls without worrying about irrelevant things like height.

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Be creative and unique for your next romantic date. by Cheryl Scheurer

Let’s face it, when it comes to dating it can be a little more challenging of an activity and the most rewarding. Today, it is eminent to be creative and innovative when dating for the first time in a relationship or with a long-term married couple. In the beginning of a couple dating, it definitely puts pressure on the relationship to go out to dinner, too soon. Even when you are magnetically attracted to one another, moving too fast, you can miss important qualities or idiosyncrasies about the woman or man you are dating and getting to know.
To have 300 ideas for dates at hand, is, so, incredibly helpful, when you are so busy and do not have the time or energy to think of more for yourself. When we work hard and do not have, a lot of time, to be able to browse through a reference is such a relief. Positively speaking, it also, assists you in keeping the innovation sparked within yourself, reading how many different courting ideas there are.

Wanting to keep the spice and the flavor in your romantic life is essential, even as busy as we are on a daily basis. In the long run, it does pay off in the relationship. I love how we all can have tools to assist in asking someone out on a date. Usually, we are unnerved for the first time on a date. I know I get butterflies in my stomach, when I am meeting a man for the first time on a romantic date. That is part of the thrill and excitement of dating and romance, anyway.

Your dates do not have to be expensive. They can be whatever you want them to be. I feel like, it is stressful to a degree, since there is a certain expectation from both parties. Speaking for myself, I have a challenge dating, so I think of how much fun we can have and it dissolves the fear and nerves. However, the key is being “opened minded”, like the artist blank page or blank canvas, so there will not be any expectations, so you will not be disappointed. Putting a lot of effort, into that thought, I believe, will change how you approach dating, it has for me. Remember, it is not having to high of an expectation on yourself or the other person that will help relax your nerves.

The do’s and do not’s are interesting and could make or break your date. The articulation on this subject is interesting. Obviously, there has been an enormous amount of research and study on this whole dating activity and is worth reading.

Thank you for reading!

If you have questions and or comments, please contact me @ Cheryl Scheurer - http://www.secrets2thebesthealthandfinancialwellness.com Copyright 2009

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Cheryl has been in the Business world in the corporate and entrepreneurial environment for 30 years. She holds an MBA in Finance and is a Universal Life Minister. She is finishing her first book - Open at the Top. She has been a single Mom for 20 years. Her writing is intellectually spiritual from the heart and mind.

7 Factors in an Ideal Relationship by Carole Merritt

There are many factors that go into having an ideal relationship. This article will explore what it means to be “ideal” and how you can go about achieving that status in your relationship. Watch out, because the last point will surprise you!

1.) Let go of the past. What happened in past relationships is over. Your current man is not going to treat you like your last one did - don’t expect it. And just because your last girlfriend walked out on you doesn’t mean this one will. If you don’t let go of the past, you are doomed to repeat it.

2.) Discover how you act in relationships. Are there patterns that you repeat in your relationships? Do you have certain expectations for yourself or your partner? For instance, do you expect your partner to meet all of your emotional needs thinking that you don’t need an extended network of family and friends? When you start to catalog these issues, you may be able to get closer to finding the ideal relationship.

3.) Discover your needs. Make a list of what you need out of a boyfriend or girlfriend. Then, go about finding that person. If the factor is not on your list, ignore it or modify the list. Don’t expect perfection, but look to get your basic romantic needs met.

4.) Define Your Boundaries. If you know what is acceptable and not acceptable in your relationships, you will be better able to find someone who can fill your needs. And, you need to be able to communicate these boundaries to your new partner so that he or she can honor them.

5.) Redefine how you socialize. Don’t think that you can continue to go where you go and pick up a different kind of partner. A certain kind of woman goes to singles bars and another kind altogether goes to a Baptist church every Sunday. If you aren’t finding the kind of partner you are looking for in the places you’re currently going to look for dates, consider expanding your territory.

6.) Define new relationship patterns. This is a multi-step process that includes:

· Seeing people for what they are, and not what you want them to be.
· Recognize and understand why you are attracted to people
· Know what you need from your relationship.
· Be clear about what you consider an ideal relationship.
· Having a rich and satisfying social life - with or without a boyfriend or girlfriend.

7.) Realize that there is no “ideal relationship.” I told you this one would surprise you. But, when you accept that people are people and there is no way around that, you will become satisfied with the “good” and not long for the “perfect.

You have the ability to call your soul mate into your life. But you have to recognize your own limiting factors. Your good relationship is out there - now go get it!

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Do You Have Sex Appeal? by Emma Wanjiku

Sex is always a topic that receives critical interest from the human kind and even our fellow animals. The main reason for this might be that sex is a good thing. However, in many spheres of society, this topic continues to be taboo. This is because different conservative institutions like churches know the power of sex and what it can do to people. From a religious point of view (not to limit this view), sex is for particular people. Above all, sex is viewed as something that can destroy if not used properly.
There is a lot of truth to the above concern but, have you ever really explored the power of sex. What can this power do for you? Is it wrong to tap into the power of sex in the first place for different benefits? These questions will obviously elicit many personal sentiments. Although we may not all agree on engaging the power of sex, it is important to understand the bare facts about the power of sex.

When a person decides to make money by selling their body, they are definitely benefiting but, this is often deemed as negative. However, when people use sex appeal to sell their products like cloths, shoes, cars, music videos and so on, people are more tolerant with this.

This goes to show that the power of sex can be used (not in an extreme way) to help you reach your goals and targets. This article is meant to open eyes and to show that you can use sex appeal in a positive way. The fact that God created woman as an attractive person shows that there is need to celebrate this advantage. You do not have to be a prostitute to maximize this power. The following are practical tips that will show women how to celebrate who they are; which is beautiful and sexy beings.

* WHAT YOU WEAR does matters a lot. If you are not bound to religious beliefs, it is vital to love your body and look for cloths that will make you stand out as a woman. Wearing trashy will not earn you respect but wearing thoughtfully will earn you praise. Look for cloths that are able to highlight who you are without exposing yourself

* HOW YOU MOVE also speaks volumes. Every woman has the capacity to tap into that positive power of sex to enable them move in an attractive manner. It is all about taking time and appreciating who you are. We may not always manage to walk like super models in cat walks but, we can improve. If you are a woman, stop walking like a man.

* WHAT YOU SAY will show how attractive you are. The power of our sexuality lies in our mouths. If you are a bitter person who never has anything to say, you should not be surprised why you never have a crowd of fans. If you are an unmarried woman, you want to speak pleasant things because a good body is not enough to get you a good man. With the above, you can use your God-given sexual appeal to have confidence in yourself and to make others appreciate you even more.

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What Women Want In A Man: How To Be A Girl Magnet by Michael Lee

Are you having problems asking women out? Do they always seem to give you that you’re-not-my-type look? Well, perhaps it’s time to figure out exactly what women want in a man. Even husbands who are married to their wives for the past ten years have problems figuring out what women want.
To tell you the truth, the answers are perfectly simple. I’ve interviewed a lot of female friends and figured out some of the most common attributes that women want in a man.

If you’re interested to find out how you can harness these traits, read on!

What Women Want In A Man # 1: They want to be taken cared of.

You don’t have to treat her like she’s made of glass. Respect her own abilities and trust that she can make it out on her own.

However, it’s always nice to do something special and almost chivalric for women. For starters, make sure to pick up the tab, especially if you two are just dating. Open the door for her, even if you’re just entering the 24-hour convenience store. These small acts don’t go unrewarded.

What Women Want In A Man # 2: They want men who can actually carry a conversation.

Talking and getting to know each other better is a crucial part of the success of a relationship. Even if you two have different interests, you still have to strike up a decent conversation.

If you two are in a bar, make the bar your topic of the night. Or the drinks or the food… From there, you can actually move on to better topics. She will remember your conversation as the most fun she’s had in a while.

If you two are in a relationship, having frequent conversation is crucial. Ask her about her day. Never lose interest in what she’s saying, because that will keep the love alive.

What Women Want In A Man # 3: They want men with a sense of adventure.

You don’t have to be into sky diving or any of those extreme sports to be adventurous. Being adventurous also means wanting to try out that new restaurant down fifth street, or wanting to learn a new hobby.

Women want men who are willing to experiment different things and activities, because it suggests fun and excitement.

It also helps to dress up like a man with a sense of adventure. Even though you can’t bear the thought of para-sailing, you can always “wing it” and look the part.

These are just some of what women want in a man. As I said, they’re pretty simple and can work for any guy out there.

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